Why Being In Love Is The Best Feeling In The World

Love makes you happy. Love makes you hopeful. Love makes you grateful. Love makes you inspired. Love changes your life.

The first time I fell in love, it was mind blowing. Literally. I had heard about how amazing love is in all the romantic comedies I’ve seen. I’ve even read about it in the Jackie Collins and Danielle Steel novels I like to read when I’m not able to fall asleep at night. But I didn’t know what love was really like until I experienced it.

Having such strong feelings about another person shook me to my core. It made me re-evaluate my beliefs. I learned what it was like to really care about someone. Everything I had believed, everything I stood for, suddenly disappeared. I found a whole new world opened up for me.

I was no longer closed-minded. I found myself saying YES to things I would ordinarily say no to. I learned the meaning of never say never. I had a new outlook on life. Here are 10 reasons why being in love is the best feeling in the world.

  1. Love Makes You Feel Invincible

Love makes you feel as if you can do anything. Your approach on life is brighter and happier. You have a sudden courage to do things you didn’t think you were able to do.

2. Love Gives You Inspiration

Being in love makes you feel inspired. It gives you a can-do attitude that you can approach anything, anywhere, anytime. Being in love gives you motivation. It makes you feel like you can take on the world.

3. Love Makes You Happy 

Plain and simple, love makes you happy.

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4. Love Makes You A Hopeful Romantic

Falling in love makes you a romantic. Love gives you hope that there is a perfect person out there.

5. Love Makes You Eliminate Your Fear

The things you used to fear suddenly disappear when you’re in love. You know you have your own personal cheerleader in your corner to help you with whatever is needed. You almost feel protected because you’re trouble and drama free.

6. Love Makes You Into The Best Version of Yourself

When you’re in love, you’re a better version of yourself. You’re nice to everyone, and eternally grateful. Love makes you want to spread joy to everyone you meet.

7. Love Makes You Rich

Love makes you feel rich. You don’t stress about your finances or material things because you feel so damn rich.

8. Love Puts You In A State of Total Confusion

Love makes you confused – it shakes you to your core and sometimes makes you rethink your beliefs. Love is puzzling. It makes you marvel how you can care about someone so much. Love gives you a yearning is something you don’t understand until you’re madly in love. You can spend countless nights awake thinking about the person who changed your life. You can miss them in ways you never knew. Welcome to love!

9. Love Makes You Selfless

Love makes people mad, literally, because it encourages you to want to do things you aren’t used to doing. It makes you selfless in ways you didn’t know existed. You find yourself thinking about the needs of your partner before your own.

10. Love Makes You Believe

Love makes you hopeful. It makes you believe in happily ever after. When you’re single, you wonder if you’re ever going to meet your soulmate. Love makes you know that is possible.

10 Things Your Girlfriend Is Thinking, But Won’t Tell You

Women are always thinking; it’s in our nature. We overthink and we can’t help it. There are so many things your girlfriend wants to tell you but doesn’t because she cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Well, here are 10 things we wish we could say without the sugarcoating.

1. You Need Some New Clothes

A lot of men are handsome, smart, accomplished, and have their life together. But they don’t dress like it and it drives us crazy. We want your clothes to portray how amazing you are. You don’t need to look like you just stepped out of GQ, but we would like it if you tried to be a little more fashionable.

2. You’re A Tad Bit Messy

No one is perfect. Women don’t want to date an OCD neat freak. We don’t expect your fridge to be spotless or your t-shirts to be folded in a certain way. That would just be weird. We want the bare minimum, really, just the basics. So, here’s a hint: we hate it when you leave the toilet seat up and we would like you to be a bit tidier in general.

3. Where’s The Romance?

As women, we want the romance. We love being woo-ed. We appreciate when you do things that make us feel special. Schedule a date night, bring us chocolate, send us flowers. We notice all of the little things you do and we so appreciate them.

4. We Love Foreplay

Foreplay is one of our favorite things. It gets us in the mood – literally! Women adore being kissed, explored, and caressed. Spend some time enjoying our bodies, please!

5. Planning is an Aphrodisiac

We love it when you plan. Planning is super duper sexy. Every woman wants to date a man who plans and takes charge. Organizing a date is an easy way to make us happy. As long as you arrange it, we’re thrilled to be doing almost anything with you.

6. We Crave More Sex

Yes, that’s right, we crave more sex. Women are sexual too. We want to enjoy ourselves just as much as you do. We like to feel wanted and needed. We miss the days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of us!

7. We Enjoy Our Down Time

Women like girls nights and “me time.” We need time for ourselves. Sometimes we just want to be lazy and sit on our couch. We like to watch chick flicks, make healthy dinners, and relax. We want to tell you that we need more alone time, but we don’t want to offend you.

8. We Have a Time Frame

Our marriage and baby clocks are always ticking. Does this mean that we’re desperate to get married and have babies? Absolutely not!! We have no desire to tie the knot to an average Joe. We’re looking to get married when we meet someone amazing that we can’t live without.  But, when we’re over the age of 25, we don’t need to date you for 5 years before we know it’s right. We have a time frame and we really want you to stick to it!

9. We Want To Feel Special

We’re overjoyed when you make an effort. Women need to feel like they’re important to you. Make your woman feel like she’s a priority.

10. The Get Out Of Jail Free Card

When we’re mad at you, we’re usually thinking pretty irrationally. So, if you’re in the doghouse, you’re going to need to redeem yourself.  I recommend oral sex as your get out of jail free card.  It works like a charm 98 percent of the time. If all else fails, a pair of Louboutins is always a good idea.

 

10 Things To Remind You That You Deserve The Absolute Best

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In life, we settle for so many average things because they’re convenient, and well, easy. One thing that should never be mediocre is love. Love should be amazing, mind blowing, life changing, and really, really wonderful. Love is supposed to make all of the common things feel so much more exciting. Here are 10 things to remind you that you deserve someone who will make you feel like the luckiest woman in the entire world.

1. You deserve someone who’s going to impact your life. When it comes to love, you shouldn’t settle for anything but the absolute best. You deserve someone who’s going to make an imprint in your life; someone who’s going to show you that they care about you. There’s a difference between telling someone you adore them, and showing them. Be with the person who will do anything to show you that he cares.

2. You deserve someone who misses you when he’s not with you. You ought to be with a man who finds himself thinking about you when he’s not with you and counting down the hours until he can see you again. Be with the man who always makes an effort to see you.

3. You deserve to be with a man who treats you well. You deserve someone who treats you like a Queen because he knows that’s what you are. He should jump through hoops for you. You matter to him and he reminds you of that on a daily basis. Be with the man who treats you right.

4. You deserve someone who challenges you. You deserve someone who will confront you when he doesn’t agree with you. He gives you his honest opinion and challenges you right to the core. Be with someone whom you find incredibly interesting.

5. You deserve desire. You deserve passion – the “I can’t stop thinking about you and have to have you right now” kind of passion. You should be with someone who makes you always feel wanted. You should be with someone who kisses you every morning and looks at you with love and warmth in his eyes. Be with someone who enjoys pleasuring you and always makes sure you’re sexually satisfied.

6. You deserve someone who incorporates you into his life. He’s eager to introduce you to his family, friends, and co-workers. He values the opinion of the important people in his life and he wants you to meet all of them. He tries to see you every chance he can. Be with someone who always makes time for you.

7. You deserve someone who is caring. You deserve a man who remembers the special occasions and note-worthy moments. You deserve someone who brings you flowers and chocolate just because. Be with someone who is kind.

8. You deserve a planner. You deserve someone who loves to plan because he knows it brings joy to your life. You should date someone who reminds you that you’re special, and makes an effort to make you happy. Be with someone who plans far in advance.

9. You deserve a romantic. You deserve a man who knows that chivalry isn’t dead. He opens doors for you, pulls out your chair, and courts you. He knows how to woo you. You deserve someone who holds your hand; someone who walks next to you and is proud to be dating you. You deserve to be with someone who knows he’s lucky to be your man. Be with someone who believes in romance.

10. You deserve someone who makes you better. He brings out the best in you and loves having you in his life. You deserve someone who goes out of his way to put a smile on your face. You’re worthy of a man who makes your dreams come true. Be with someone who makes you smile.

You deserve the fairy tale.

Be Cliche. Wear the Lingerie.

Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate love and romance. If you’re in a relationship, it’s a day to appreciate your man and feel grateful that he’s in your life. If you’re not in love, don’t stress. Have faith and know that Mr. Right is out there. It will happen for you one day when the time is right.

In honor of the Hallmark Holiday, I think lingerie is a necessity.  When I walk into a lingerie store, I’m immediately overjoyed with how much I want to buy everything in the store. I was taught from a young age that lingerie should be part of your routine. It’s something you should wear to make you feel sexy, even on a random Tuesday. I don’t equate being single with wearing granny panties or being in a relationship with adoring lace lingerie and thigh highs. I’m a believer in making sure that your undergarments are always fabulous – regardless of your relationship status.

Starting every single day wearing something sensual gives you an extra boost of confidence, only for you. And, if and when you have a man, sure, he’ll absolutely love it too. Everyday, especially on Valentine’s Day, what you wear underneath your clothes should make you feel super flirtatious. Whether you like bustiers, bras, panties, or lacy little negligees, here are some amazing options to make you feel a little racy and confident.

Negligees

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The definition of sexy is different for everyone. No one can tell you what you feel sexiest in. A negligee is a happy medium between a bustier outfit and a bra and panties.

Bustiers

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Bustiers are a little more risqué than a negligee.  Sure, they’re super attention grabbing. But, isn’t that the point of wearing one? Whether you’re into the peek-a-boo concept or a little more covered up, you’ll be both seductive and feminine!

Bras and Panties

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A good bra can make you feel like a whole new woman. Trust me. The transformative power of anything like this being your go-to lingerie immediately has the ability to make you feel like the sexiest woman alive.

Playsuits

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To me, a playsuit screams “wear me under a blazer!” It’s the perfect combination of sexy, yet sophisticated.

Remember, everything you wear is all about what suits your style and what you’re most comfortable in. You might love all of these, or none. Make sure that YOU feel great in whatever you wear!

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9 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn’t Ready To Propose

If you’re a typical girl, you’ve most likely thought about marriage and kids at least once in your life. Come on, you know it’s the truth. If you’ve been dating your man for more than a year, you, your mother, and everyone else around you is probably wondering when he’s going to propose.

As a Matchmaker, I meet women all day long. I hear so many stories of women who say they wasted their time with Mr. Wrong. Sure, they have some great memories from the relationship, but they wish they could get those precious years back. If you don’t want this to happen to you, and you’ve been dating for more than a year, familiarize yourself with these 9 telltale signs that your man isn’t going to put a ring on it.

1. He Avoids Weddings Like The Plague

When a guy isn’t squeamish about marriage, he’ll be all about attending weddings and he’ll want to you to come with him. If your man hates going to other people’s nuptials, that’s a good sign he isn’t ready for his own.

  1. He Doesn’t Talk About Getting Married

If you bring up the topic of marriage and he changes the subject ASAP, marriage isn’t something he’s thought about. If your man has an aversion to the M-word, he’s subtly letting you know that marriage probably isn’t part of his plan in the foreseeable future. Likewise, when you’re with other people and the topic of marriage or children is brought up, pay attention to how your boyfriend reacts. Does he quickly change the subject (bad!), or does he ever say things like “when I get married…” (good!)

  1. He Doesn’t Plan

Is your boyfriend allergic to planning? Does he only make plans for the immediate or short term future? If so, marriage likely isn’t a priority. Sure he might be ready to make a date for this week or the weekend, but if he’s hesitant to make plans six months from now, your future together may not be a sure thing in his mind.

  1. He’s Mr. Excuse Man

Men are simple creatures. When they want something, you’ll know. If they’re constantly making excuses about marriage or the future, it’s time to realize that something’s wrong. If he’s too busy and stressed to talk or think about marriage, it’s time to say sayonara. If he has too much going on to focus on buying a ring, your future together isn’t looking so bright. Any excuse isn’t a good thing. If your boyfriend blames his lack of interest in marriage on work, money, or family, he isn’t eager to walk down the aisle.

  1. He Says He’s Happy With The Way Things Are

Plain and simple, if your man tells you he that he’s happy with the way things are, or he doesn’t want to ruin the special relationship you have, he has no intention of taking your relationship to the next level.

  1. He Talks About The Glory Days

Pay close attention to what your boyfriend enjoys reminiscing about. Does he make references to how great the last vacation you guys took was? Or does he constantly and longingly tell stories about his college days? If he enjoys talking about his Spring Break ’08 or mentions how much misses going out every night with his friends, he’s probably not mature enough to wed just yet.

  1. He Has No Interest In Your Future

When you mention your 5-year plan, if he seems completely uninterested in what you have in mind, he isn’t looking to build a life together.

  1. None of His Friends are Married 

Are your boyfriend’s friends mostly married or mostly single? If he only wants to surround himself with happy bachelors instead of having a healthy mix of single and married friends, he’s not rushing to take things to the next step.

  1. He Hasn’t Mentioned Starting a Family

Men don’t have a baby clock ticking like women do. In a man’s brain, having a family is a natural thing that will happen one day once you’re married and the time is right. However, if he’s unwilling to discuss having a family one day, he may not be ready to walk down the aisle.

12 Ways To Give Your Partner An Emotional Orgasm

Yes, emotional orgasms are a thing, and they’re just what they sound like: A “wow” moment that leads to ongoing contentment in a relationship.

Generally, emotional orgasms occur when you reach a peak of happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure—all at once! And while we don’t often refer to them by name, emotional orgasms are an absolute necessity in any romantic relationship. Whether you’re newly dating, contently committed, or married, here are 12 ways to make sure your partner is having non-stop emotional orgasms!

  1. Don’t criticize the small stuff.


There’s nothing worse than picking on your partner—or being picked on—for small, inconsequential things. It creates tension, unease, and resentment, so check yourself whenever you have the urge to criticize, belittle, or pick over minor instances. If something is really bothering you, have an adult conversation about it rather than endlessly nagging: You’ll get results much quicker.

  1. Be encouraging.


To emotionally satisfy your partner, you want to be encouraging. This means not shutting them down when they have ideas, or brushing them off when they want to talk about something. Be their personal cheerleader, and they’ll be yours in return.

  1. Verbalize your feelings.

If something’s bothering you, verbalize it. It’s important to make sure you don’t keep your feelings quiet and let them fester until you explode. When you’re having an issue, you want to remember to share your feelings and keep your cool.

  1. Have fun.


Sometimes women become preoccupied with having a “perfect” relationship. They think they have to act a certain way and do specific things. They forget to actually have fun with their partner. The best relationships are full of laughter and goofiness. Keep in mind that everything doesn’t have to be planned. Sometimes the most fun nights can be an impromptu dinner at home or something low-key like a picnic in the park.

  1. Don’t tell each other what to do.


Bossiness isn’t attractive quality. In the bedroom, it can be fun, but not in the light of day. Your partner isn’t a child and shouldn’t be treated like one. You should both think for yourself and be able to do what you want. Bossing him around will lead to him (and you!) eventually being very unhappy.

  1. Sex isn’t a way of communicating.


Yes, sex can bring you closer. It enhances the intimacy in your relationship, but it shouldn’t be used as an alternative instead of verbally communicating. If you’re upset with your man or having an issue, you should speak about things before you hop into bed.

  1. Appreciate each other.

It’s important to cherish and appreciate the person you’re with. You want to make sure that the love you feel for each other stays strong and continues to grow. Small gestures, like making each other’s favorite desert or favorite dinner, to wearing something special, make a difference. Remind your partner what you like about them, often.

  1. Compliment!


Compliments are important, and we often stop giving them when we’re in a serious relationship. If you like the way your partner did something, or simply like the way they look today, say it!

  1. Initiate sex.


When you initiate physical contact, you’re showing your partner you desire them, which is key to keeping someone (and yourself!) happy. A good relationship must have sex. If you don’t have an active sex life, chances are your partner might be thinking about getting it elsewhere or OD’ing on porn.

10. Talk about work.


Most people are at work for the majority of the day, so it seems odd to not take an active interest in what your partner is doing. Ask questions, and learn a little work lingo.

11. Promote their goals.

Find out what your partner’s goals are, whether it’s running a triathlon, switching careers, or waiting for a promotion. Learning these things offer insight to what your lover is passionate about, and it’ll give you something to celebrate when these goals are accomplished.

12. Listen.


Being a good listener is a crucial part of being in a relationship. Listen to what your partner tells you, even if you don’t think it’s important. If they mention wanting to try a new restaurant, make reservations as a surprise. Simply remembering things can go a long a way for both of you.

Date Someone Who Makes You Better

The person you date should enhance your life. He or she is supposed to make you smile more than you frown. They ought to make you feel great about yourself. They should fascinate you, amaze you, and of course, make you very, very happy. The person you date should make you better. Here are 14 dating tips to help you start 2015 off right!

Date someone who is passionate. Their zest for life should be intense and they should be exciting to be around. They need to make you feel intoxicated – in a wonderful way.

Date someone who is curious about life. They must push their limits and yours! Pick a person who is stimulating – someone who has hobbies and interests. Let them encourage you to try new things and make you escape your comfort zone.

Date someone who is captivating. When they walk into a room, all heads should turn because they’re so confident. Date someone who knows they’re incredible.

Date a man or a woman who challenges you. Choose a person who can talk about anything, anywhere, anytime. Be with someone who emotionally satisfies you.

Be with a partner who isn’t afraid to be unusual. Maybe she has a bit of an edge. Perhaps he is a little quirkier than you ordinarily like. His or her uniqueness is what makes them special.

Date a man or a woman who is ambitious and has goals. They don’t need to have a 5-year plan, but they should have a list of things they want to accomplish. Someone who is goal oriented and eager to succeed is a good influence to be around.

Date someone who believes in living life to the fullest. They’re happy taking advantage of all life’s simple pleasures. Fall in love with a person who has a natural love of life. They’re fun to be with because they enjoy any activity.

Laughter is the best medicine. Choose a partner who cracks you up. They don’t have to be funny to everyone – just to you. They have the ability to make you literally LOL.

Spend time with someone who can be your best friend. You should be able to talk to them about anything. They should provide you with advice when needed, and understand you in a way that no one else does. You can spend all day talking to them and never run out of things to say.

Date someone who is drama free. Your relationship shouldn’t be a rollercoaster. They’re dependable and you know you can count on them. They bring honesty into your life and they don’t “yes” you when you ask for the truth.

Date someone who inspires you to have a “can do” attitude. When you’re with them, you find yourself trying things you would normally hate. Choose a partner who pushes you; someone who introduces you to things you’ve never thought you’d enjoy.

Date someone who you find irresistible and really, really sexy. You can’t wait to be alone with them, and that feeling never gets old.

Date someone who thinks you’re extraordinary. They compliment you often and make you feel like you’re the luckiest person in the world. They’re always your biggest cheerleader.

Fall in love with someone who exhilarates you and makes you be the best version of yourself.

How to Tell If He’s The One

Being in love is amazing. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. When you’re madly in love with someone special, it’s hard not to imagine spending the rest of your lives together. But how do you know for sure that it’s real love and it will last? Here are 10 ways to tell if he’s The One.

1. He Loves All The Little Things About You

Whether you’re having a great day or a bad one, he understands. He loves you at your best, and your absolute worst. There’s no pretending. You don’t have to be “on” in front of him – you can just be you. He makes you feel good about all those things you don’t like about yourself.

2. You Adore Everything About Him

You’ve never cared about someone this much. You love everything about him. You have fun with him wherever you are.

3. You Can Confide In Him

He’s your best friend and your confidant. You feel comfortable telling him everything. He knows what you’re trying to say without you having to explain it. He helps you solve any dilemmas and he gives you advice when you need it.

4. He Makes You A Better Person

He should be your biggest cheerleader. Does he bring out the best in you? Does he push you to be a better person and try new things? Does he believe in you and encourage you to accomplish your goals? If he sees the best in you, respects you, and makes you a better person, he’s a keeper.

5. You’re Super Attracted to Each Other

Physically and emotionally, you’re so compatible. You find everything about him incredibly sexy. Your life in the bedroom is just as exciting as it was when you first met.

6. He Treats You Like A Queen

You know he’s The One because he treats you like a Queen. He’s good to you in ways that you never thought were possible. He compliments you and makes you feel beautiful. He never stops trying to make you happy. He makes you feel special and knows exactly what to do to put a smile on your face.

7. It’s Easy To Communicate With Him

Talking to him is easy. Whether you’re sharing exciting news or telling him about your work day, he listens and he cares. He’s the first person you want to share exciting things with. He’s there for you whenever you need him.

8. You Have The Same Beliefs

It’s not common to agree on everything. You probably have different opinions on a few topics. But when it comes to fundamental beliefs, you’re on the same page. You share the same principles and values about kids, finances, and family.

9. He Cares About The People In Your Life.

He makes an effort with the people you care most about. He’s kind to your friends and includes them in your life together. Your friends and family mean something to him.

10. He Makes Everything Better.

Last, but not least, you want to be with him. Regardless of what kind of mood you’re in, you’d rather be with him than without him. If you’re having a bad day, just by being with him, you instantly feel better. You want to be near him, all the time.

Make The Rest Of Your Life The Best Of Your Life!

unnamed-1You control your life.  You have the power to make it as amazing as you want it to be.  Here are 9 tips to help make your life super awesome.

1. Do Things That You Love

Take a moment to identify what makes you happy. It can be anything you like. I like to start my day off each morning with a hint of positivity. I listen to (and of course sing!) my favorite song. It’s simple, I know, but it puts a smile on my face. So it’s become a silly daily morning routine.

Whatever you love, do it as often as you can. You should feel like you’re on cloud nine at least once every day.

2. Get Focused

Focus on the now. When you’re in the moment, be present. Don’t think about the past or the future. Live what’s happening at the exact moment in time.

3. Create A Bucket List

Make a list of everything you want to do. Do you want to go to Bali and visit a Buddhist monastery? Is hiking the Grand Canyon on your wish list? Do you want to play hooky from work one day? Is it a goal of yours to visit every museum in your city? Write down everything, and anything, you want to do, and make an effort to make it happen. Experience as many things as you can.

4. Live For Yourself

Live for yourself. If you want to take a break from dating, go ahead. If you’re craving a slice of pizza, but you know it’s bad for you, eat it anyway. Perhaps you want to spend a whole day reading in bed. Go for it, and enjoy it. Do things because you want to, not because someone tells you to or you think you have to.

5. Stop Complaining

Complaining doesn’t get you anywhere. It makes you annoying and prevents you from attaining your ambitions. If you’re not happy with something in your life, change it. You have the power to do anything you want. So, what are you waiting for?

6. Like Your Job

Do work that you truly love. Not everyone gets to be a pro-athlete or travel the world and write about it on someone else’s tab, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy what you do. If you’re passionate about what you do, it’s not a job. You should have a career that you’re excited about. Life is too short to dread Monday mornings.

7. Be An Optimist

Be positive. Choose to be optimistic and have a sunny outlook on life. Don’t worry about the things that you can’t control. Focus on what you’re grateful for and what brings you joy.

8. Surround Yourself With Greatness

The people you surround yourself with have a big impact on your attitude. When you’re around happy, relaxed, vivacious people, it’s easy to have a positive outlook on everything. You should spend time with people who make you laugh, put a smile on your face, and of course, enhance your life.

9. Take Advantage

Take advantage of what your city has to offer. There are an array of things you can be doing at any given moment that are really, really awesome. Go to a wine tasting. Take a cooking class. Attend a cake making workshop. Sign up for an art class. Go on a yoga retreat. Spend the day in a bookstore.  Go see a play.  Listen to the opera. Experience a concert. Book a scavenger hunt. You get the point – do unique things that add greatness to your life.

Your life should be filled with joy. On any given day, you should be able to reflect on how fabulous your life is!

The Importance of Sex in a Relationship

Sex. It’s a topic that men and women love talking about. It’s something that everyone thinks about – even when they’re not sexually active. And, guess what, it’s very important in a relationship. In fact, it’s just as imperative as trust and communication.

Sex is something that’s different for men and women. It’s a universal form of pleasure and a way to de-stress. It also gives you a level of closeness with your significant other. Here are 7 reasons why sex is important in a relationship.

Passion, Passion, Passion

The best relationship you can have is with someone who’s your best friend and your lover. If you’re in a relationship that’s become sex-less, you might as well be dating just a friend. Yes, it’s that simple.

Relationships need passion. They need excitement and sexiness. Having sex with your partner keeps the spark alive. It makes the relationship desirable, stimulating, and fun.

Stress-Free

Having sex helps relieves stress. It releases endorphins and other hormones that make you feel good. When you’re stress free and feel great, you function better.

Keeping the Connection Alive

Sex is something simple you can do to make yourself (and your partner!) very happy. It promotes intimacy, reassurance, and shows you both that you’re wanted and needed. It tells your partner that you can still make time for each other.

Sex a form of communication. It’s a way of assuring your significant other that the love is still there and everything is okay, regardless of how intense life becomes.

Sleep Tight

Sex helps you sleep better. It’s not just the fabulous romp session that makes you sleep like a baby. After sex, a chemical called oxytocin is released, which helps you sleep soundly.

It Makes You Happy

People who have sex very often are generally happier than those who don’t. Having sex puts an extra pep in your step. It also boots your self-confidence and gives you a better positive attitude about yourself.

It Keeps Your Partner Happy

When men are stressed, sex makes them feel better. It makes them feel wanted and needed. Plain and simple, having sex makes a man feel good about himself. If you’re in a sex-less relationship, your partner isn’t 100% satisfied. It’s a no-brainer that if he isn’t happy with your sex life, he’s going to start looking for sex from someone else.

Sex is the glue that’s needed in a relationship. It re-connects you and puts you in tune with your partner. Sex keeps your relationship alive.