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Why Being In Love Is The Best Feeling In The World

Love makes you happy. Love makes you hopeful. Love makes you grateful. Love makes you inspired. Love changes your life.

The first time I fell in love, it was mind blowing. Literally. I had heard about how amazing love is in all the romantic comedies I’ve seen. I’ve even read about it in the Jackie Collins and Danielle Steel novels I like to read when I’m not able to fall asleep at night. But I didn’t know what love was really like until I experienced it.

Having such strong feelings about another person shook me to my core. It made me re-evaluate my beliefs. I learned what it was like to really care about someone. Everything I had believed, everything I stood for, suddenly disappeared. I found a whole new world opened up for me.

I was no longer closed-minded. I found myself saying YES to things I would ordinarily say no to. I learned the meaning of never say never. I had a new outlook on life. Here are 10 reasons why being in love is the best feeling in the world.

  1. Love Makes You Feel Invincible

Love makes you feel as if you can do anything. Your approach on life is brighter and happier. You have a sudden courage to do things you didn’t think you were able to do.

2. Love Gives You Inspiration

Being in love makes you feel inspired. It gives you a can-do attitude that you can approach anything, anywhere, anytime. Being in love gives you motivation. It makes you feel like you can take on the world.

3. Love Makes You Happy 

Plain and simple, love makes you happy.

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4. Love Makes You A Hopeful Romantic

Falling in love makes you a romantic. Love gives you hope that there is a perfect person out there.

5. Love Makes You Eliminate Your Fear

The things you used to fear suddenly disappear when you’re in love. You know you have your own personal cheerleader in your corner to help you with whatever is needed. You almost feel protected because you’re trouble and drama free.

6. Love Makes You Into The Best Version of Yourself

When you’re in love, you’re a better version of yourself. You’re nice to everyone, and eternally grateful. Love makes you want to spread joy to everyone you meet.

7. Love Makes You Rich

Love makes you feel rich. You don’t stress about your finances or material things because you feel so damn rich.

8. Love Puts You In A State of Total Confusion

Love makes you confused – it shakes you to your core and sometimes makes you rethink your beliefs. Love is puzzling. It makes you marvel how you can care about someone so much. Love gives you a yearning is something you don’t understand until you’re madly in love. You can spend countless nights awake thinking about the person who changed your life. You can miss them in ways you never knew. Welcome to love!

9. Love Makes You Selfless

Love makes people mad, literally, because it encourages you to want to do things you aren’t used to doing. It makes you selfless in ways you didn’t know existed. You find yourself thinking about the needs of your partner before your own.

10. Love Makes You Believe

Love makes you hopeful. It makes you believe in happily ever after. When you’re single, you wonder if you’re ever going to meet your soulmate. Love makes you know that is possible.

10 Things Your Girlfriend Is Thinking, But Won’t Tell You

Women are always thinking; it’s in our nature. We overthink and we can’t help it. There are so many things your girlfriend wants to tell you but doesn’t because she cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Well, here are 10 things we wish we could say without the sugarcoating.

1. You Need Some New Clothes

A lot of men are handsome, smart, accomplished, and have their life together. But they don’t dress like it and it drives us crazy. We want your clothes to portray how amazing you are. You don’t need to look like you just stepped out of GQ, but we would like it if you tried to be a little more fashionable.

2. You’re A Tad Bit Messy

No one is perfect. Women don’t want to date an OCD neat freak. We don’t expect your fridge to be spotless or your t-shirts to be folded in a certain way. That would just be weird. We want the bare minimum, really, just the basics. So, here’s a hint: we hate it when you leave the toilet seat up and we would like you to be a bit tidier in general.

3. Where’s The Romance?

As women, we want the romance. We love being woo-ed. We appreciate when you do things that make us feel special. Schedule a date night, bring us chocolate, send us flowers. We notice all of the little things you do and we so appreciate them.

4. We Love Foreplay

Foreplay is one of our favorite things. It gets us in the mood – literally! Women adore being kissed, explored, and caressed. Spend some time enjoying our bodies, please!

5. Planning is an Aphrodisiac

We love it when you plan. Planning is super duper sexy. Every woman wants to date a man who plans and takes charge. Organizing a date is an easy way to make us happy. As long as you arrange it, we’re thrilled to be doing almost anything with you.

6. We Crave More Sex

Yes, that’s right, we crave more sex. Women are sexual too. We want to enjoy ourselves just as much as you do. We like to feel wanted and needed. We miss the days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of us!

7. We Enjoy Our Down Time

Women like girls nights and “me time.” We need time for ourselves. Sometimes we just want to be lazy and sit on our couch. We like to watch chick flicks, make healthy dinners, and relax. We want to tell you that we need more alone time, but we don’t want to offend you.

8. We Have a Time Frame

Our marriage and baby clocks are always ticking. Does this mean that we’re desperate to get married and have babies? Absolutely not!! We have no desire to tie the knot to an average Joe. We’re looking to get married when we meet someone amazing that we can’t live without.  But, when we’re over the age of 25, we don’t need to date you for 5 years before we know it’s right. We have a time frame and we really want you to stick to it!

9. We Want To Feel Special

We’re overjoyed when you make an effort. Women need to feel like they’re important to you. Make your woman feel like she’s a priority.

10. The Get Out Of Jail Free Card

When we’re mad at you, we’re usually thinking pretty irrationally. So, if you’re in the doghouse, you’re going to need to redeem yourself.  I recommend oral sex as your get out of jail free card.  It works like a charm 98 percent of the time. If all else fails, a pair of Louboutins is always a good idea.

 

10 Things To Remind You That You Deserve The Absolute Best

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In life, we settle for so many average things because they’re convenient, and well, easy. One thing that should never be mediocre is love. Love should be amazing, mind blowing, life changing, and really, really wonderful. Love is supposed to make all of the common things feel so much more exciting. Here are 10 things to remind you that you deserve someone who will make you feel like the luckiest woman in the entire world.

1. You deserve someone who’s going to impact your life. When it comes to love, you shouldn’t settle for anything but the absolute best. You deserve someone who’s going to make an imprint in your life; someone who’s going to show you that they care about you. There’s a difference between telling someone you adore them, and showing them. Be with the person who will do anything to show you that he cares.

2. You deserve someone who misses you when he’s not with you. You ought to be with a man who finds himself thinking about you when he’s not with you and counting down the hours until he can see you again. Be with the man who always makes an effort to see you.

3. You deserve to be with a man who treats you well. You deserve someone who treats you like a Queen because he knows that’s what you are. He should jump through hoops for you. You matter to him and he reminds you of that on a daily basis. Be with the man who treats you right.

4. You deserve someone who challenges you. You deserve someone who will confront you when he doesn’t agree with you. He gives you his honest opinion and challenges you right to the core. Be with someone whom you find incredibly interesting.

5. You deserve desire. You deserve passion – the “I can’t stop thinking about you and have to have you right now” kind of passion. You should be with someone who makes you always feel wanted. You should be with someone who kisses you every morning and looks at you with love and warmth in his eyes. Be with someone who enjoys pleasuring you and always makes sure you’re sexually satisfied.

6. You deserve someone who incorporates you into his life. He’s eager to introduce you to his family, friends, and co-workers. He values the opinion of the important people in his life and he wants you to meet all of them. He tries to see you every chance he can. Be with someone who always makes time for you.

7. You deserve someone who is caring. You deserve a man who remembers the special occasions and note-worthy moments. You deserve someone who brings you flowers and chocolate just because. Be with someone who is kind.

8. You deserve a planner. You deserve someone who loves to plan because he knows it brings joy to your life. You should date someone who reminds you that you’re special, and makes an effort to make you happy. Be with someone who plans far in advance.

9. You deserve a romantic. You deserve a man who knows that chivalry isn’t dead. He opens doors for you, pulls out your chair, and courts you. He knows how to woo you. You deserve someone who holds your hand; someone who walks next to you and is proud to be dating you. You deserve to be with someone who knows he’s lucky to be your man. Be with someone who believes in romance.

10. You deserve someone who makes you better. He brings out the best in you and loves having you in his life. You deserve someone who goes out of his way to put a smile on your face. You’re worthy of a man who makes your dreams come true. Be with someone who makes you smile.

You deserve the fairy tale.

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9 Signs Your Boyfriend Isn’t Ready To Propose

If you’re a typical girl, you’ve most likely thought about marriage and kids at least once in your life. Come on, you know it’s the truth. If you’ve been dating your man for more than a year, you, your mother, and everyone else around you is probably wondering when he’s going to propose.

As a Matchmaker, I meet women all day long. I hear so many stories of women who say they wasted their time with Mr. Wrong. Sure, they have some great memories from the relationship, but they wish they could get those precious years back. If you don’t want this to happen to you, and you’ve been dating for more than a year, familiarize yourself with these 9 telltale signs that your man isn’t going to put a ring on it.

1. He Avoids Weddings Like The Plague

When a guy isn’t squeamish about marriage, he’ll be all about attending weddings and he’ll want to you to come with him. If your man hates going to other people’s nuptials, that’s a good sign he isn’t ready for his own.

  1. He Doesn’t Talk About Getting Married

If you bring up the topic of marriage and he changes the subject ASAP, marriage isn’t something he’s thought about. If your man has an aversion to the M-word, he’s subtly letting you know that marriage probably isn’t part of his plan in the foreseeable future. Likewise, when you’re with other people and the topic of marriage or children is brought up, pay attention to how your boyfriend reacts. Does he quickly change the subject (bad!), or does he ever say things like “when I get married…” (good!)

  1. He Doesn’t Plan

Is your boyfriend allergic to planning? Does he only make plans for the immediate or short term future? If so, marriage likely isn’t a priority. Sure he might be ready to make a date for this week or the weekend, but if he’s hesitant to make plans six months from now, your future together may not be a sure thing in his mind.

  1. He’s Mr. Excuse Man

Men are simple creatures. When they want something, you’ll know. If they’re constantly making excuses about marriage or the future, it’s time to realize that something’s wrong. If he’s too busy and stressed to talk or think about marriage, it’s time to say sayonara. If he has too much going on to focus on buying a ring, your future together isn’t looking so bright. Any excuse isn’t a good thing. If your boyfriend blames his lack of interest in marriage on work, money, or family, he isn’t eager to walk down the aisle.

  1. He Says He’s Happy With The Way Things Are

Plain and simple, if your man tells you he that he’s happy with the way things are, or he doesn’t want to ruin the special relationship you have, he has no intention of taking your relationship to the next level.

  1. He Talks About The Glory Days

Pay close attention to what your boyfriend enjoys reminiscing about. Does he make references to how great the last vacation you guys took was? Or does he constantly and longingly tell stories about his college days? If he enjoys talking about his Spring Break ’08 or mentions how much misses going out every night with his friends, he’s probably not mature enough to wed just yet.

  1. He Has No Interest In Your Future

When you mention your 5-year plan, if he seems completely uninterested in what you have in mind, he isn’t looking to build a life together.

  1. None of His Friends are Married 

Are your boyfriend’s friends mostly married or mostly single? If he only wants to surround himself with happy bachelors instead of having a healthy mix of single and married friends, he’s not rushing to take things to the next step.

  1. He Hasn’t Mentioned Starting a Family

Men don’t have a baby clock ticking like women do. In a man’s brain, having a family is a natural thing that will happen one day once you’re married and the time is right. However, if he’s unwilling to discuss having a family one day, he may not be ready to walk down the aisle.

12 Ways To Give Your Partner An Emotional Orgasm

Yes, emotional orgasms are a thing, and they’re just what they sound like: A “wow” moment that leads to ongoing contentment in a relationship.

Generally, emotional orgasms occur when you reach a peak of happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure—all at once! And while we don’t often refer to them by name, emotional orgasms are an absolute necessity in any romantic relationship. Whether you’re newly dating, contently committed, or married, here are 12 ways to make sure your partner is having non-stop emotional orgasms!

  1. Don’t criticize the small stuff.


There’s nothing worse than picking on your partner—or being picked on—for small, inconsequential things. It creates tension, unease, and resentment, so check yourself whenever you have the urge to criticize, belittle, or pick over minor instances. If something is really bothering you, have an adult conversation about it rather than endlessly nagging: You’ll get results much quicker.

  1. Be encouraging.


To emotionally satisfy your partner, you want to be encouraging. This means not shutting them down when they have ideas, or brushing them off when they want to talk about something. Be their personal cheerleader, and they’ll be yours in return.

  1. Verbalize your feelings.

If something’s bothering you, verbalize it. It’s important to make sure you don’t keep your feelings quiet and let them fester until you explode. When you’re having an issue, you want to remember to share your feelings and keep your cool.

  1. Have fun.


Sometimes women become preoccupied with having a “perfect” relationship. They think they have to act a certain way and do specific things. They forget to actually have fun with their partner. The best relationships are full of laughter and goofiness. Keep in mind that everything doesn’t have to be planned. Sometimes the most fun nights can be an impromptu dinner at home or something low-key like a picnic in the park.

  1. Don’t tell each other what to do.


Bossiness isn’t attractive quality. In the bedroom, it can be fun, but not in the light of day. Your partner isn’t a child and shouldn’t be treated like one. You should both think for yourself and be able to do what you want. Bossing him around will lead to him (and you!) eventually being very unhappy.

  1. Sex isn’t a way of communicating.


Yes, sex can bring you closer. It enhances the intimacy in your relationship, but it shouldn’t be used as an alternative instead of verbally communicating. If you’re upset with your man or having an issue, you should speak about things before you hop into bed.

  1. Appreciate each other.

It’s important to cherish and appreciate the person you’re with. You want to make sure that the love you feel for each other stays strong and continues to grow. Small gestures, like making each other’s favorite desert or favorite dinner, to wearing something special, make a difference. Remind your partner what you like about them, often.

  1. Compliment!


Compliments are important, and we often stop giving them when we’re in a serious relationship. If you like the way your partner did something, or simply like the way they look today, say it!

  1. Initiate sex.


When you initiate physical contact, you’re showing your partner you desire them, which is key to keeping someone (and yourself!) happy. A good relationship must have sex. If you don’t have an active sex life, chances are your partner might be thinking about getting it elsewhere or OD’ing on porn.

10. Talk about work.


Most people are at work for the majority of the day, so it seems odd to not take an active interest in what your partner is doing. Ask questions, and learn a little work lingo.

11. Promote their goals.

Find out what your partner’s goals are, whether it’s running a triathlon, switching careers, or waiting for a promotion. Learning these things offer insight to what your lover is passionate about, and it’ll give you something to celebrate when these goals are accomplished.

12. Listen.


Being a good listener is a crucial part of being in a relationship. Listen to what your partner tells you, even if you don’t think it’s important. If they mention wanting to try a new restaurant, make reservations as a surprise. Simply remembering things can go a long a way for both of you.

Date Someone Who Makes You Better

The person you date should enhance your life. He or she is supposed to make you smile more than you frown. They ought to make you feel great about yourself. They should fascinate you, amaze you, and of course, make you very, very happy. The person you date should make you better. Here are 14 dating tips to remind you what you should look for.

  1. Date someone who is passionate. Their zest for life should be intense and they should be exciting to be around. They need to make you feel intoxicated – in a wonderful way.
  2. Date someone who is curious about life. They must push their limits and yours! Pick a person who is stimulating – someone who has hobbies and interests. Let them encourage you to try new things and make you escape your comfort zone.
  3. Date someone who is captivating. When they walk into a room, all heads should turn because they’re so confident. They have a presence about them and that presence is impressive. Date someone who knows they’re incredible.
  4. Date a man or a woman who challenges you. Choose a person who can talk about anything, anywhere, anytime. Be with someone who emotionally satisfies you.
  5. Be with a partner who isn’t afraid to be unusual. Maybe she has a bit of an edge. Perhaps he is a little quirkier than you ordinarily like. His or her uniqueness is what makes them special.
  6. Date a man or a woman who is ambitious and has goals. They don’t need to have a 5-year plan, but they should have a list of things they want to accomplish. Someone who is goal oriented and eager to succeed is a good influence to be around.
  7. Date someone who believes in living life to the fullest. They’re happy taking advantage of all life’s simple pleasures. Fall in love with a person who has a natural love for life. They’re fun to be with because they enjoy any activity.
  8. Laughter is the best medicine. Choose a partner who cracks you up. They don’t have to be funny to everyone – just to you. They have the ability to make you literally LOL.
  9. Spend time with someone who can be your best friend. You should be able to talk to them about anything. They should provide you with advice when needed, and understand you in a way that no one else does. You can spend all day talking to them and never run out of things to say.
  10. Date someone who is drama free. Your relationship shouldn’t be an emotional rollercoaster. They’re dependable and you know you can count on them. They bring honesty into your life and they don’t “yes” you when you ask for the truth.
  11. Date someone who inspires you to have a “can do” attitude. When you’re with them, you find yourself trying things you would normally hate. Choose a partner who pushes you; someone who introduces you to things you’ve never thought you’d enjoy.
  12. Date someone who you find irresistible and really, really sexy. You can’t wait to be alone with them, and that feeling never gets old.
  13. Date someone who thinks you’re extraordinary. They compliment you often and make you feel like you’re the luckiest person in the world. They’re always your biggest cheerleader.
  14. Fall in love with someone who exhilarates you and makes you be the best version of yourself. Life should be better with them and they should be proud to have you in their life.

How to Tell If He’s The One

Being in love is amazing. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. When you’re madly in love with someone special, it’s hard not to imagine spending the rest of your lives together. But how do you know for sure that it’s real love and it will last? Here are 10 ways to tell if he’s The One.

1. He Loves All The Little Things About You

Whether you’re having a great day or a bad one, he understands. He loves you at your best, and your absolute worst. There’s no pretending. You don’t have to be “on” in front of him – you can just be you. He makes you feel good about all those things you don’t like about yourself.

2. You Adore Everything About Him

You’ve never cared about someone this much. You love everything about him. You have fun with him wherever you are.

3. You Can Confide In Him

He’s your best friend and your confidant. You feel comfortable telling him everything. He knows what you’re trying to say without you having to explain it. He helps you solve any dilemmas and he gives you advice when you need it.

4. He Makes You A Better Person

He should be your biggest cheerleader. Does he bring out the best in you? Does he push you to be a better person and try new things? Does he believe in you and encourage you to accomplish your goals? If he sees the best in you, respects you, and makes you a better person, he’s a keeper.

5. You’re Super Attracted to Each Other

Physically and emotionally, you’re so compatible. You find everything about him incredibly sexy. Your life in the bedroom is just as exciting as it was when you first met.

6. He Treats You Like A Queen

You know he’s The One because he treats you like a Queen. He’s good to you in ways that you never thought were possible. He compliments you and makes you feel beautiful. He never stops trying to make you happy. He makes you feel special and knows exactly what to do to put a smile on your face.

7. It’s Easy To Communicate With Him

Talking to him is easy. Whether you’re sharing exciting news or telling him about your work day, he listens and he cares. He’s the first person you want to share exciting things with. He’s there for you whenever you need him.

8. You Have The Same Beliefs

It’s not common to agree on everything. You probably have different opinions on a few topics. But when it comes to fundamental beliefs, you’re on the same page. You share the same principles and values about kids, finances, and family.

9. He Cares About The People In Your Life.

He makes an effort with the people you care most about. He’s kind to your friends and includes them in your life together. Your friends and family mean something to him.

10. He Makes Everything Better.

Last, but not least, you want to be with him. Regardless of what kind of mood you’re in, you’d rather be with him than without him. If you’re having a bad day, just by being with him, you instantly feel better. You want to be near him, all the time.

Want The Person Who Wants You!

Life is short. Romance, passion, success, and love are needed to make life fulfilling and great. Just like significant ingredients are needed to make life amazing, the same is true for a relationship. A relationship needs both people to love, cherish, respect, and care about each other equally.

Many people date someone who doesn’t really want them. Their partner doesn’t give them everything that they need. How do you know if you’re dating a man or a woman who really wants you? Well, that’s simple. You should be able to immediately answer YES to all of these questions.

  1. Compliments Are Key

Does the person you’re dating compliment you? Does he tell you that you’re beautiful? Does she tell you that you’re handsome? When you’re dating someone who wants you, they should flatter you often.

  1. I Feel So Good

Does he make you feel good about yourself? When you’ve had a bad day, does she still make you feel great? Does he empower you to feel like you can do anything? Does she tell you that you’re awesome? When you’re involved with someone, they’re supposed to make you feel fantastic – ALL the time!

  1. Intelligence is Sexy

In a strong relationship, your partner is supposed to make you feel wonderful. Does she tell you that you’re smart? Does he think that you’re intelligent? The person you’re dating is supposed to bring you up.

  1. Be Supportive

Does he emotionally support you? Does she mentally encourage you? When you care about someone, you want them to succeed and be happy doing whatever they love. You don’t have to share each other’s passions, but you should want to stand beside them as they pursue their goals.

  1. Some Encouragement, Please

Does he make you want to be a better person? Does she encourage you to be the best version of yourself? The person you’re with should inspire you to be extra fabulous.

  1. Let’s Get Busy

Do you want each other? A relationship is supposed to be pleasurable – literally. Does your partner want to pleasure you? To keep it G rated, answer these questions. Does he want to kiss you often? Does she want to make out with you whenever she can? Plain and simple, your partner should want to sexually satisfy you.

  1. I’m Special

Does he make you feel special? Does she make you feel lucky? When you’re happy with someone, you feel like you’re on top of the world. You feel fortunate because you’re dating someone incredible. The person you’re seeing should feel that way too.

  1. Be Caring

Does he surprise you with your favorite dessert? Does she ever bring home your meal of choice just because? The man you’re dating should show you that he cares about you by being thoughtful. The woman you’re seeing should make your day better by doing small things to show you how much she adores you.

  1. A Little Romance

Romance is needed to keep a relationship alive. If you like flowers, does he ever bring them home for you? If you hate a certain chore, does she ever do it for you? Does he leave you a note saying how he can’t wait to see you later? Does she ever send you a love text? Being romantic is a simple way to increase your love connection.

The man or woman you’re seeing should make you feel like a King or a Queen. I hear too many stories of people who aren’t happy in a relationship –  they’re just comfortable. They’re afraid of going back to the dating pool so they stay with someone out of fear. Don’t let that be you. Whether you’ve been with someone for 5 months, or 5 years, you deserve the best. You should be with someone who wants you.

Top 10 Places to Meet Women

You should be meeting women everywhere. Yes, I know that’s very general. But, there are more women than men in most cities, so women are literally all over the place. If the idea of “everywhere” is too broad for you, here are the top 10 places that are great to meet women.

1. Try A New Restaurant

Busy, single women don’t always like to cook for themselves. They think it’s too much of a hassle to cook for one person. This is why they need a boyfriend – so they can have someone to cook for! Just kidding. However, when they’re tired and hungry after work, single women are likely to dine out at a restaurant – either alone or with a girlfriend. So if you want to meet a new lady, try a different restaurant at least once a week.

2. Get Sweaty

It’s a fact that women like to workout. They want to look and feel great, so they frequent gyms and exercise studios. If you meet a woman at the gym, you can see what she really looks like when she’s all sweaty and sans makeup. If she looks good in exercise clothes, imagine how great she’ll look all dolled up. People who work out are usually much happier and more fun to be around.

3. Bring On The Vino

Wine tasting events are awesome opportunities to meet women because they’re something that women can attend alone. Not all women have a plethora of girlfriends to go out with, which limits their extra curricular activities. Women are eager to experience new things. Most women also appreciate a good glass of wine. You can kill two birds with one stone – meet a woman and learn something new about wine.

4. Take Your Dog For A Walk

If you’ve walked by a dog park before, you’ve probably noticed that it was filled with droves of women. A dog park is a place to take advantage of – especially while it’s still sort of nice out. You can tell your dog to start playing with her dog, and the rest is history. If you own a dog, try out a new dog park every so often.

5. Join A Meet-Up Group

Women who are active and enjoy being out and about join meet-up groups. Meet-up groups have events for virtually every kind of person and hobby. Depending on what activities you love, you can pursue all of them.

6. Start Cooking

Women who want to better their kitchen skills take cooking classes. A cooking class enables a woman to explore her culinary skills and have fun in a relaxed, non-pressuring setting. Go to a cooking class and you’re almost guaranteed to be the only man.

7. Go Au Natural

Hands down, Whole Foods is the best grocery store to meet women in. For some reason, it caters to a beautiful crowd. It’s unlike Trader Joes or Fairway. If you spend 5 minutes walking around, you’ll see tons of pretty, fit women. Head to Whole Foods, even if you don’t like food shopping!

8. Pick Up a Sport


Do you like tennis or running? Well, start to love them both! Tennis clubs and running groups are filled with active women. Joining a tennis or running club is like a trifecta; you can see women in cute workout attire, better your sport, and get in great shape.

9. Namaste

Yes, I know, yoga isn’t for everyone. Most men think it’s very feminine and too calm for them. But, it’s a fabulous way to meet women. The majority of women who practice yoga are naturally pretty and in shape. It’s a bold statement to make, so go to a yoga studio and see for yourself.

10. Brush up On Your Culture

Experience a typical New York moment by going to a museum or art gallery. There are always new exhibits to view. If you’re meeting a woman at a museum, chances are she’s interesting, cultured, and can teach you something. I mean, how sexy is intelligence!?

Do you have any more places to add to the list?

 

 

The Top 10 Places To Meet A Man

Meeting the opposite sex isn’t the easiest feat, especially when you work in a femme-heavy industry. So, here are 10 tips to help you cross paths with Mr. Right.

1. Eat Out

Busy, single men don’t have time to cook. This is why they need a girlfriend! Just kidding. However, when they’re tired and hungry after work, they dine out at restaurants, and usually at the bar. If you want to meet a man, try a new restaurant at least once a week.

2. Join a Gym

Gyms are places where all body conscious men go to let off some steam. If you meet a man at the gym, you can see what he really looks like when he’s all sweaty. If he looks good in gym clothes, he’ll look great in real clothes. People who work out are also much happier and more enjoyable to be around. (Translation: they’re a better partner to be with).

3. Pay Attention To Your Pet

The sun is out (for now!) and love is in the air.  Take advantage of the warm weather we’ve been experiencing.  Give your dog some extra attention and go to the park. If you don’t have a dog, ask a friend if you can borrow theirs or join them and their furry friend at the park. Many men think of dogs as soul mates (who else better understands their zest for the simple things in life?) and will often frequent dog runs. If a man sees a cute woman walking a dog, he will most likely start a conversation with her.

4. Fix Things

To me, Home Depot is the worst place in the world.  I would rather sit in an icebox and freeze than go to an oversized tool shed. But, guys consider it their inner handyman Mecca. Men love fixing and building things, so Home Depot (or Lowes) stores are always filled with an array of manly men.

5. Start To Love Toys

Men love toys. The bigger the boat and the faster the engine, the more powerful the guy will usually be. The same way women love fashion shows, guys love toy shows. Car and boat shows are places where single men are like a flock to a shepherd. If you attend a car or boat show, pick up on the finer things in life (um, Ferraris anyone?), while meeting a man to drive it.

6. Wash Your Car

Speaking of cars, most men love their four-wheelers and they like them to appear brand new. I’ve spent a significant amount of time at car washes (thanks to always dating men who are car lovers) and I’ve noticed that they were usually filled with men. Head to a car wash and remember that your car can never be too shiny.

7. Be Tech-Friendly

True or false? Men are into electronics. Men love technology and are always looking for new phones and exciting gadgets. If you want to meet a tech-friendly type of guy, frequent a Verizon, Sprint, Apple, or AT&T store.

8. Pick Up a Sport


Do you like tennis or golf? Well, start to love them both! Being active will boost your confidence and help you stay fit. Golf courses and tennis clubs are places that men go to with their friends. If you join one, you can better your game, stay active, and meet new people.

9. Start Reading

Reading is a great way to escape your day-to-day troubles. Go to a bookstore and kill two birds with one stone. You can find a book and a brand new man. Some men love to learn and are always looking for reading material. If you’re browsing the same aisle, you know you have something in common.

10. Get Cultured


Experience a typical New York moment by going to a museum. Depending on what type of art you enjoy, there are various different types of exhibits you can view. If you meet a man at a museum, chances are he’s interesting and cultured. You can also brush up on some art history while looking for that prospective boyfriend or husband.