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10 Things To Remind You That You Deserve The Absolute Best

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In life, we settle for so many average things because they’re convenient, and well, easy. One thing that should never be mediocre is love. Love should be amazing, mind blowing, life changing, and really, really wonderful. Love is supposed to make all of the common things feel so much more exciting. Here are 10 things to remind you that you deserve someone who will make you feel like the luckiest woman in the entire world.

1. You deserve someone who’s going to impact your life. When it comes to love, you shouldn’t settle for anything but the absolute best. You deserve someone who’s going to make an imprint in your life; someone who’s going to show you that they care about you. There’s a difference between telling someone you adore them, and showing them. Be with the person who will do anything to show you that he cares.

2. You deserve someone who misses you when he’s not with you. You ought to be with a man who finds himself thinking about you when he’s not with you and counting down the hours until he can see you again. Be with the man who always makes an effort to see you.

3. You deserve to be with a man who treats you well. You deserve someone who treats you like a Queen because he knows that’s what you are. He should jump through hoops for you. You matter to him and he reminds you of that on a daily basis. Be with the man who treats you right.

4. You deserve someone who challenges you. You deserve someone who will confront you when he doesn’t agree with you. He gives you his honest opinion and challenges you right to the core. Be with someone whom you find incredibly interesting.

5. You deserve desire. You deserve passion – the “I can’t stop thinking about you and have to have you right now” kind of passion. You should be with someone who makes you always feel wanted. You should be with someone who kisses you every morning and looks at you with love and warmth in his eyes. Be with someone who enjoys pleasuring you and always makes sure you’re sexually satisfied.

6. You deserve someone who incorporates you into his life. He’s eager to introduce you to his family, friends, and co-workers. He values the opinion of the important people in his life and he wants you to meet all of them. He tries to see you every chance he can. Be with someone who always makes time for you.

7. You deserve someone who is caring. You deserve a man who remembers the special occasions and note-worthy moments. You deserve someone who brings you flowers and chocolate just because. Be with someone who is kind.

8. You deserve a planner. You deserve someone who loves to plan because he knows it brings joy to your life. You should date someone who reminds you that you’re special, and makes an effort to make you happy. Be with someone who plans far in advance.

9. You deserve a romantic. You deserve a man who knows that chivalry isn’t dead. He opens doors for you, pulls out your chair, and courts you. He knows how to woo you. You deserve someone who holds your hand; someone who walks next to you and is proud to be dating you. You deserve to be with someone who knows he’s lucky to be your man. Be with someone who believes in romance.

10. You deserve someone who makes you better. He brings out the best in you and loves having you in his life. You deserve someone who goes out of his way to put a smile on your face. You’re worthy of a man who makes your dreams come true. Be with someone who makes you smile.

You deserve the fairy tale.

How to Tell If He’s The One

Being in love is amazing. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. When you’re madly in love with someone special, it’s hard not to imagine spending the rest of your lives together. But how do you know for sure that it’s real love and it will last? Here are 10 ways to tell if he’s The One.

1. He Loves All The Little Things About You

Whether you’re having a great day or a bad one, he understands. He loves you at your best, and your absolute worst. There’s no pretending. You don’t have to be “on” in front of him – you can just be you. He makes you feel good about all those things you don’t like about yourself.

2. You Adore Everything About Him

You’ve never cared about someone this much. You love everything about him. You have fun with him wherever you are.

3. You Can Confide In Him

He’s your best friend and your confidant. You feel comfortable telling him everything. He knows what you’re trying to say without you having to explain it. He helps you solve any dilemmas and he gives you advice when you need it.

4. He Makes You A Better Person

He should be your biggest cheerleader. Does he bring out the best in you? Does he push you to be a better person and try new things? Does he believe in you and encourage you to accomplish your goals? If he sees the best in you, respects you, and makes you a better person, he’s a keeper.

5. You’re Super Attracted to Each Other

Physically and emotionally, you’re so compatible. You find everything about him incredibly sexy. Your life in the bedroom is just as exciting as it was when you first met.

6. He Treats You Like A Queen

You know he’s The One because he treats you like a Queen. He’s good to you in ways that you never thought were possible. He compliments you and makes you feel beautiful. He never stops trying to make you happy. He makes you feel special and knows exactly what to do to put a smile on your face.

7. It’s Easy To Communicate With Him

Talking to him is easy. Whether you’re sharing exciting news or telling him about your work day, he listens and he cares. He’s the first person you want to share exciting things with. He’s there for you whenever you need him.

8. You Have The Same Beliefs

It’s not common to agree on everything. You probably have different opinions on a few topics. But when it comes to fundamental beliefs, you’re on the same page. You share the same principles and values about kids, finances, and family.

9. He Cares About The People In Your Life.

He makes an effort with the people you care most about. He’s kind to your friends and includes them in your life together. Your friends and family mean something to him.

10. He Makes Everything Better.

Last, but not least, you want to be with him. Regardless of what kind of mood you’re in, you’d rather be with him than without him. If you’re having a bad day, just by being with him, you instantly feel better. You want to be near him, all the time.

Bring On The Positivity

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Positive mind. Positive vibes. Positive life. How wonderful does that sound!? And, it’s not difficult to achieve. Here are 4 tips to help you increase the positivity in your life.

1. Smile

Smiling is really important. If you walk around NYC, you’d be surprised how many people don’t smile. Too many people have a permanent frown on and that isn’t cool. You want to be happy, right? So start by looking it.

2.  Do Something Nice For Someone Else

Kindness is contagious. So is karma. Try something new and indulge in a random act of kindness. If you do something nice for someone else, it makes your day better, and theirs. The person you’re being nice to is (hopefully!) likely to continue the kindness.  On Friday’s, I’m a fan of buying coffee for the person behind me in line at Starbucks. They’re usually so surprised and excited that their day automatically starts off with positive vibes.

3. Think Nice Thoughts 

Make an effort to only think nice thoughts. When you focus on the good things in your life, you’re setting yourself up for success. Think about what you love most about yourself. What’s the most exciting thing happening in your personal life? What would your friends say is your best quality? What do people like most about working with you?  Increase the positivity in your life by realizing how great you are and portraying it to those around you.

4. Surround Yourself With Optimism 

Look at who your friends are. Are they supportive? Are your friends good people? Do they encourage you to better yourself? When you surround yourself with people who enhance your life, it’s easy to be an optimist.