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How to Tell If He’s The One

Being in love is amazing. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. When you’re madly in love with someone special, it’s hard not to imagine spending the rest of your lives together. But how do you know for sure that it’s real love and it will last? Here are 10 ways to tell if he’s The One.

1. He Loves All The Little Things About You

Whether you’re having a great day or a bad one, he understands. He loves you at your best, and your absolute worst. There’s no pretending. You don’t have to be “on” in front of him – you can just be you. He makes you feel good about all those things you don’t like about yourself.

2. You Adore Everything About Him

You’ve never cared about someone this much. You love everything about him. You have fun with him wherever you are.

3. You Can Confide In Him

He’s your best friend and your confidant. You feel comfortable telling him everything. He knows what you’re trying to say without you having to explain it. He helps you solve any dilemmas and he gives you advice when you need it.

4. He Makes You A Better Person

He should be your biggest cheerleader. Does he bring out the best in you? Does he push you to be a better person and try new things? Does he believe in you and encourage you to accomplish your goals? If he sees the best in you, respects you, and makes you a better person, he’s a keeper.

5. You’re Super Attracted to Each Other

Physically and emotionally, you’re so compatible. You find everything about him incredibly sexy. Your life in the bedroom is just as exciting as it was when you first met.

6. He Treats You Like A Queen

You know he’s The One because he treats you like a Queen. He’s good to you in ways that you never thought were possible. He compliments you and makes you feel beautiful. He never stops trying to make you happy. He makes you feel special and knows exactly what to do to put a smile on your face.

7. It’s Easy To Communicate With Him

Talking to him is easy. Whether you’re sharing exciting news or telling him about your work day, he listens and he cares. He’s the first person you want to share exciting things with. He’s there for you whenever you need him.

8. You Have The Same Beliefs

It’s not common to agree on everything. You probably have different opinions on a few topics. But when it comes to fundamental beliefs, you’re on the same page. You share the same principles and values about kids, finances, and family.

9. He Cares About The People In Your Life.

He makes an effort with the people you care most about. He’s kind to your friends and includes them in your life together. Your friends and family mean something to him.

10. He Makes Everything Better.

Last, but not least, you want to be with him. Regardless of what kind of mood you’re in, you’d rather be with him than without him. If you’re having a bad day, just by being with him, you instantly feel better. You want to be near him, all the time.

Dating Do’s and Don’ts: Dating Rules To Live By from A Matchmaker

When you’re dating, you have to put yourself out there until you find Mr. Right. Sometimes it takes a while, but in the end it’s always worth it. Here are the dating rules to live by from a Matchmaker, so that you don’t make the common dating mistakes.

The Do’s: These are the things you should be doing.

1. Ask Away
The best way to get to know a man is to ask him a ton of questions. Don’t make the date feel like an interview, but get to know him. Believe me, everyone loves to talk about themselves.

2. Dress Up
Putting yourself together is important – all the time. I’m a huge fan of leggings and T-shirts. If you ever run into me during the day, I’ll most likely be in spandex and some kind of comfy top. But that’s not what I wear on dates. I save my comfy clothes for when I hang out with my gfs. You should too. When you’re going on a date, play dress-up with yourself. Wear clothes that make you feel like a million dollars.

3. Be Confident
Confidence, confidence, confidence. Say it over and over again and remember how important it is. Men want to date a woman who’s sure of herself. They don’t want to date an insecure girl who’s always in doubt.

4. Be Honest About Your Feelings
Life is too short to keep your feelings a secret. If you like someone, make him aware of it.

5. Be Informed
 
Men are attracted to smart, sophisticated women. They like dating women who can bring something to the table. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist, but you should be aware of what’s going on in the world.

The Don’ts: The don’ts of dating are the things you should never do. They’re easy to remember.

1. Don’t Be A Wimp
No one likes wimps. At least I know I don’t. Most people say you should hide your feelings when you’re casually dating. That rule is so passé. When you’re dating someone, stand up for what you want. If you don’t, no one else will.

2. Don’t Be A Hussy
Everyone likes sex; sex is fun! But that doesn’t mean that you should go around having sex with 40 different guys. You should wait to sleep with someone until you’re exclusively dating. Men like a chase. They don’t want to date a girl who’s easy.

3. Be Game Free
Regardless of what your friends tell you, games aren’t cool. They’re for people who are afraid to be vulnerable and show their true colors. Do you want to be that girl? I didn’t think so. So don’t play games.

4. Bye Bye Neediness
Men want a woman who’s attentive, but there’s a difference between being attentive and being needy. When you’re attentive, you give a guy the right amount of attention without smothering him, but when you’re needy he’ll want to run in the opposite direction as soon as possible. So whatever you do, don’t be needy!

Now that you know a few of the simple do’s and don’ts of dating, follow them.